It is now politically correct to be an older woman looking for sex. You see it among all the celebrities. It is becoming a trend. Younger men on the arms of older women are becoming the norm. Younger men are the hot new accessories. When you have a younger man on your arm, you feel sexier, younger, and more vibrant than ever. You are beautiful and successful. You have made your money, and you want to lie back relax and enjoy a younger man on your arm.
Statistics don’t lie ladies! Over 300,000 older women are looking for sex with younger men. So why can’t you join in the fun? Oh wait! You can! Life is your oyster open it up. Do not let the stereotypes detour from your happiness. Check out a few tips that will uncover a whole new a whole new world to you.
Confidence Rules: You are an older successful woman. Do not allow the fact that gentlemen is younger intimidate. Be bold! Be confident in yourself. You must know yourself worth and never forget it. You are more than a beautiful woman. Do not go into these relationships trying to be a younger version of you. Be yourself and be confident.
Levels Of Maturity: Do not stereotype maturity levels. There are many men past 40 that you would think are still in high school. By the same token, there are younger, successful men who are wise beyond their years. Get to know him before you judge him.
Trust: Should you be dating a younger man you may have some feeling of inadequacy. These feelings may cause you to have trust issues. Trust until he gives you reason not to. Not every younger man in interested in the hot young blonde down the street.
Discussing Later Now: The fact you are older is not so much a big deal. However he is younger so it could be a good idea to discuss later on down the road in the beginning. You may have already done the married and children thing. He probably has not. You should talk about it and see where you both stand to make a sound decision on your relationship.
Meeting Expectations: Discussing expectations are important. What type relationship do you want from each other? Is it serious or casual? Decide this quickly so no one gets hurt.
Spontaneity: He is young and energetic. You will find the energy he exudes will rub off on you. Allow him to take you on adventures. A younger man’s energy is infectious.
Bedroom Compatibility: Women hit their sexual stride around 40 years old. Younger men tend to be aware nowadays. So beware and be to know where you stand. A 25 year old is probably perfect sexually for a 40+-year-old woman. However make sure you discuss the nature of your relationship.
Matching Energy Levels: Make sure your energy levels match, or are somewhat close. Discuss activities you both enjoy. So you can meet somewhere in the middle.
Courageous Woman: Be fearless! Older woman looking for sex are still a little taboo. You see it in media and people seem to accept. However in everyday life people may still frown upon it. They may stereotype you has a cougar. If they do roar on girl! Do not let this detour. Have fun! Live life! If he makes you happy screw everybody else.
Do not put limits or expectations on yourself. You may have the perfect picture of your life laid out in your head. But it does not mean that is what will happen. Keep your mind open. A younger can be a perfect companion, lover and friend. You must be open to the possibility.